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Tuesday 26-Apr-2016
讓專業的來

有時候,我會面對一班對子女過份緊張的家長。我不敢說他們「怪獸」,因為未至於跟出跟入、要人綁鞋帶、餵食飯之類。但他們對孩子們的一切事情都非常著緊,父母的愛變成對孩子的壓力,有時我都看得捏一把冷汗。

 

例如,家長們會上來公司問我關於學校試卷的問題,「會不會問這個那個?作文題目會否很深?你們有沒有past papers?如何幫孩子操卷?」十條八條問題問得我喘不過氣來。通常,我會有一個答案:「冷靜,讓專業的來。」

 

專業的,不是我,而是孩子們。畢竟,升學的事,考試面試的事,是學生的事,他們才是最清楚這一切的人,所以應該留給他們自己處理問題。尤其是家長們選的是英國,就更加要讓孩子自己來。

 

原因?和你想送他們去英國的原因一樣。孩子們去海外讀書,為的是甚麼?沒錯,獨立生活,自我學習,啟發,認識朋友。這些都是父母在場就難以做得到的事,因為爸媽們都會為其代勞,代其緊張。

 

除非你本來就想跟著子女去英國或者移民,照顧周到無微不至,否則,在香港的時候,你就應該讓專業的學生們自己來,做一次獨立的演習。

 

原因之二,在於學生們自己應有的緊張感。最終要讀書的不是爸媽們,而是學生自己本身,如果爸媽早就幫他們安排好一切,路也鋪平了,不但會令學生到英國時更難適應沒有了父母在身邊的落差,也親手毀了學生對自己前路應有的責任感,令他們容易對所有事情take it for granted,爸媽口中常說的「身在福中不知福」,有時也許是自己造成。

 

原因之三,你也得讓孩子知道自己在做甚麼。最誇張的,我甚至見過有家長自己來找我討論,孩子也不上來,因為爸媽說「他不懂的啦,我們較清楚。」不懂,是因為你沒有給他機會學習。一些學生只知道上來考試面試,有多少份卷要做,甚至對報了甚麼學校,何時出發也沒有概念。

 

至少,要問試題問貼士的話,也讓學生自己來吧。始終路是他們自己走的,自己也應參與其中。對呀,在決定踏上升學路的一刻,你已經要有種覺悟,這不再是香港的填鴨式餵食飯教育,而是實實在在的英國式自我啟發教育。而學習,還是學生比你專業,讓專業的來吧。



圖片:Hideaki Hamada

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