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Tuesday 03-May-2016
技安不可怕

小孩子去到英國讀書後常遇到一系列的問題,適應生活有難度不在話下,而最棘手的,是bullying。Bully有好多種,被同學打、被改花名、被排斥、被取笑等等,容易為他們留下一生都揮之不去的陰影。

 

我們總不可能時時刻刻監視著課室內外學生們發生的事情,而如果被欺凌者去舉報欺凌者,後果多數是欺凌者不忿氣而加強欺凌的程度,或是在下次欺凌時將證據收得更隱蔽令老師難以發現。

 

另一方面,同學身在異鄉,即使找學校協助亦不及在自己「主場」的香港來得快和直接。孩子容易受孤立無援的環境影響,情緒比起一般欺凌情況更加低落,隨時引發更嚴重的後果。

 

欺凌問題沒有地區性,學生被欺凌不必等到去英國,在香港也可以發生。而問題亦從來沒有一個完美的根本解決方法。越講越嚴重,那麼學生要屈服於欺凌下,默默接受現實嗎?不。有些問題如果無法解決,就學習如何與其相處,或者在問題下學會保護自己。

 

例如,我有一位同事在初去英國時受到同學欺凌,但後來反和欺凌者成了好朋友,更成為同學間的開心果,眾人的中心人物。如何有這種轉變呢?如果你遇上欺凌,以下是她的建議:

 

首先,了解問題所在。有時候欺凌者並非盲目隨便欺凌他人。問題可能出自學生本身,對人態度惡劣、整天板著口面不理同學、說話直率傷害別人等等,可能會引起同學不滿,令自己成為欺凌的目標;而有些同學純粹因為外貌或者瘦削的身型被欺凌,則較難控制。

 

然後,就要解決問題。如果同學面對的欺凌是前者,可以嘗試從自身出發解決問題。嘗試對別人態度好一點,主動交朋結友,融入社群,誰人都喜歡性格開朗的孩子。

 

但如果同學根本不知道被欺凌的原因,或是改變了自己都無法改變被欺凌的情況,則要採取另一種方式:直接了解欺凌原因。學生可以主動和欺凌者「講數」,當面問為何要這樣做。欺凌者總知道自己的行為有問題,面對這種直接的質疑,他們必然膽怯。欺凌者正是看中別人不敢出聲的弱點才加以針對,所以被欺凌者主動站出來反抗的話,反而能夠令欺凌者知難以退。

 

就是以上方法,令我的好同事由傷心果變成開心果。欺凌是歷史以來的問題,即使校方也沒法完全杜絕。而家長亦不必過份擔心,最重要get prepared for the worst,技安好大隻好可怕,但最後都能和大雄成為好朋友,大雄得,你都得。



圖片:《叮噹》-藤子.F.不二雄

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