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Tuesday 12-Jul-2016
前途的裁縫-為你度身訂造

有一位同事向我介紹了一套動畫的其中一集:一位媽媽由細到大都想留一把長長的頭髮,想考入某知名大學,並考入某機電公司的管理層。她因為家庭的原因無法實現一直的願望,到生孩子後,就逼她的兒子留長髮,催谷成績,要求他考入當年考不進的名牌大學,入當年的機電公司。



故事中這位小孩子沒有自我,不敢反抗母親,每一次嘗試頂咀,就受到暴力對待。他甚至自述,自己的人生是媽媽的take 2,自己只是一路實現她沒有實現的一切。



聽到這裡,我已急不及待想看那一套動畫。劇情雖然有點誇張,但這種是,不是也有發生在現實社會嗎?



一些父母在孩子出生時已經有一系列的計畫,想孩子們成為自己塑造的角色,想他們跟著自己安排的路去走。沒法子成為音樂家,就要孩子學樂器;沒有強健體格做運動員,就由孩子代替完夢。



作為父母,確實難以避免將自己想要的加於孩子身上。但必須要記住,每一個人都是獨立存在的個體,人生都走著不一樣的路,而教育,就是為孩子的前途和未來而設的一個裁縫-每人的路都應該是度身訂造的。



你的孩子或許骨格精奇,但喜歡音樂;或許他有精密的數學頭腦,但更喜歡讀莎士比亞名著;教育就有一種能力,像度身訂造的西裝,闊胸膛窄腰圍,度身訂造,舒適而稱身,讓你走路時更自如。



倒過來說,如果孩子的路是根據父母的期望而訂造,則有可能衣不稱身,造得太窄,全身覺得處處壓逼;造得太寬大,則容易「左腳棘右腳」把自己絆倒。



所以,家長們都應該記住,你們未必是最完美的裁縫,裁出最好的教育路,但你們也擔當著重要角色,幫學生們找一個合適的裁縫。



 圖片:Enza La Rosa 

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